All the Single Ladies....sing it with me!

Ok so let's be quite honest, if you are single that song drives you up a wall....and yet you can't stop singing it. And right about now you're wondering who I am so here goes.....

I'm single. And I think that about sums it up! Oh, and here's another awesome fun fact, I was born on Valentine's day...yay me! But not at all, really. Another year, another reminder wrapped in a heart-shaped box of chocolates. Over the years I've been pretty bitter, or flat out tried to ignore the day all together....and then I got smacked upside the head with reality.

Sitting in church a little over a year ago, the whole series had been about having a Godly relationship. So all I was getting out of this month's messages were that I was not in a relationship, and in my very coupled church, didn't have much hope. So finally, on this last Sunday, my pastor starts to address us, the few and the not so proud who have yet to find their sweethearts. And instead of giving us some small light at the end of the tunnel type message, he gets real honest....."God may have plans for some of you to always be single."

I'm sorry? You said what now? That's not for me! That's when I also started to cross my fingers and say "Please not me, please not me, Dear Baby Jesus, PLEASE NOT ME!" I was always brought up to be the high school sweetheart, housewife type. That's what I know so you can just call me Susie Home-maker. And after a long time of healing over the high-school sweetheart that just didn't work out, here was my pastor, indirectly telling me I may not be that person I had always planned. I mean I fit the part- I'm going to be a teacher, I love and do great with kids, I love being in love....but I might be doing all of that alone? I didn't want to hear it or believe it.

Now I've started to accept it, a little. I'd like to think that it's really more like "God just wants me to be single for now, not forever." Whatever the case, I'm okay with it. I spend countless hours talking to girls and guys that are exactly the opposite, they are STUCK on being single. Its talked about like a disease. It feels like people look down on you. I always think that my god married friends are whispering "I hope she finds someone awesome. She deserves it." Admit it- you've felt this and in some cases all those friends were whispering too loud. So this blog is going to be all about being okay with being single. Read it- Share it- Talk about it. Let me know how you're doing with you're own story. Let me know how I can help, topics I should cover, or just tear it apart. In all honesty, I'm hoping this helps me as well as you.

Look for the next post!
Valentine

ps- remember I was born on Valentine's Day....not such a clever sign off name, but so cheesy you gotta love it! and you can email me at: inowpronounceyousingle@gmail.com